Your idea of the perfect first date...
I'm not sure I'd want a first date to be perfect. To me that would just be a sign that something terrible is bound to happen later. Besides, quirky, embarrassing moments are the staple of a healthy relationship. Might as well start out on the right foot.
I'd want a first date to be somewhere public though. Not crowded and impersonal, but where others are close by. Safety issue.. Something like a picnic in a park or dinner at a nice small town restaurant would be nice. We'd have just enough awkward silences to be sure we didn't share everything about ourselves on the first date. The mystery would keep me coming back. I'd be fine with holding hands. Maybe a kiss on the cheek if I already knew them. But I would want things to go slow. I've had too slow and too fast. I'm not sure where the median is, but I'll know it when I get there.
I haven't been on many real dates, so this one is tough for me... I guess as long as the guy genuinely cared about me, it'd be perfect. If someone could show me what love really is, I'd be happy.
Sorry if this didn't make any sense. it's really late and I'm exhausted. Just got done with this...
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